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1 | Japan: Advising someone to give up on their dream | Japana: Famporisihana ny olona hanadino ny nofinofiny |
2 | What if someone asked for advice on their dream path and you felt it wasn't the best choice for them? | Ahoana tokoa moa raha ohatra ka misy olona manontany soso-kevitra aminao mikasika ny lalana izorany hanatratrarany ny nofinofiny nefa tsapanao fa tsy tsara ho azy ireo izany? |
3 | What is the right thing to do? | Inona ny zavatra mety indrindra tokony ho atao? |
4 | This is an anonymous blogger's thoughtful response to an article [ja] where a 11th grader who is interested in a career in drawing, be it illustration, anime, or manga, asked anime creator and director Tomino Yoshiyuki for advice. | Nilaza ny heviny tao anaty lahatsorany iray [ja] ity mpitoraka bilaogy iray ity izay tsy nitonona anarana. Noraisiny ohatra tamin'izany ity olona iray izay mpianatra eny amin'ny ambaratonga faharoa ity izay liana amin'ny asa fanaovana kisarisary, na sary atao tahaka izany, na sarimiaina izay antsoina ihany koa hoe ‘manga'. |
5 | [Update (added January 15th, 2010) - Matt Alt has translated this article in English on his blog.] | Nanontany ny hevitry ny mpamorona sarimiaina sy ny tale Tomino Yoshiyuki izy. |
6 | Yoshiyuki agrees with the girl's parents that she should go to a regular university and get a job as an office lady because simply having aspirations are not enough to thrive in this field. | Miombon-kevitra amin'ny Ray aman-dRenin'io zazavavy io i Yoshiyuki ary aminy dia tokony hianatra eny amin'ny anjerimanontolo toy ny mahazatra izy ary tokony hitady asa toy ny tovovavy mpiasa birao satria ny fananana finiavana be dia be dia tsy ampy velively hivoarana eo amin'io sehatra io. |
7 | Unless of course, she's ready to make a commitment armed with skills, determination, and readiness for hard work. Walk of Life by Flickr user bharat ram | Raha tsy hoe angamba efa vonona tanteraka izy ka efa ampy azy tsara ny fitaovana entiny manatanteraka izany toy ny talenta, sy ny fahazotoana ary ny fahavononana miatrika ny hamafin'ny asa. |
8 | Below is an English translation of the blog post “Making someone give up on their dream” (夢を諦めさせる). | Ny lalam-piainana nalaina tao amin'ny Flickr nampiasain'ny bharat ram |
9 | As someone who manages to make a living as a freelance designer, I sometimes get questions from students with an interest in design. | Ho an'ny olona iray izay mahavita mivelona amin'ny famoronana sarisary atao tahaka, matetika manontany ireo mpianatra liana amin'izany famoronana sarisary atao modely izany aho. |
10 | “I'd like to become a designer,” they say to me. | “Tiako raha lasa mpamorona sary atao modely aho,” hoy izy ireo amiko. |
11 | In most cases, my intuition tells me they don't have what it takes, but how am I supposed to express that to them, how am I supposed to tell them to give up on their dreams? | Amin'ny lafiny maro, dia tsy diso mihitsy ny fijeriko raha mahita aho fa mbola tsy ampy ireo fahalalana ananan'izy ireo ahafahany manatanteraka izany, nefa ahoana ny fomba hampitaiko izany amin'izy ireo, fomba ahoana no ilazako azy ireo ny amin'ny hanadinoina ny nofinofiny? |
12 | You have to be so extremely careful with your words when saying this kind of thing. | Mila mitandrina mafy ianao rehefa milaza karazan-javatra toy izany. |
13 | So that's what got me thinking: how do you tell this to a kid of high-school age without - as much as possible - hurting their feelings? | Ary izay no nahalasa ny eritreritro: ahoana no fomba ilazana izany amin'ny ny mpianatra eny amin'ny ambaratonga ambony mba tsy hanohina azy ireo? |
14 | In all honesty, people who take something that they like doing and decide to do it for a living are actually a little insane. | Raha tena am-pahatsorana, dia ireo olona izay manatanteraka ny zavatra tena tiany eo amin'ny fiainana ka manao izany ho fototr'asa hivelomany dia azo lazaina ho tsy dia ampy saina loatra. |
15 | Which is not to say that they are stupid. | Nefa tsy midika velively akory izany fa adaladala izy ireo. |
16 | In fact, the majority of them are clever. | Raha ny marina aza dia manam-pahaizana avokoa ny ankamaroan'izy ireny. |
17 | Whether these people be animators or manga artists though, the fact remains that the majority of them barely make enough money to pay the bills, working under outrageous working conditions. | Na dia mpanentana sy mpanakanto amin'ny ‘manga' aza izy ireny dia ny ankamaroan'izy ireny raha ny tena marina dia sahirana mafy amin'ny fitadiavam-bola handoavana faktiora sy miasa anaty fepetra tsy manara-penitra. |
18 | If you think logically about it, there is no question that people who avoid these risks and stick to ordinary work end up living a more enjoyable life. | Raha manaraka lojika ianao momba izany, tsy midika akory izany hoe ireo olona izay afaka niala io olana io ka nikiry nanao asa tsotra dia hoe tafita sy sambatra eo amin'ny fiainana. |
19 | Nonetheless, these people who do this type of work are so devoted that they lose the ability to even realize this fact. | Manam-pahavononana sy manam-piniavana loatra ireo olona izay nanao an'io karazan'asa io, hany ka tsy mahatakatra izany zava-marina izany akory. |
20 | So as soon as I hear someone saying to me, “I'm thinking about becoming XYZ”, I already know they're not cut out for it. | Vokatr'izany isaky ny maheno olona miteny amiko aho hoe, “Mieritreritra ny hanao XYZ aho”, dia tonga dia fantatro avy hatrany fa tsy hahavita izany izy. |
21 | They're simply too rational for this career path. | Izay fotsiny no lalana efa masaka ao an-tsain'izy ireo izorany. |
22 | Even if they actually found a position, they would keep questioning whether to continue, and will not succeed. | Eny na dia efa nahita asa aza izy ireo, tsy hitsahatra ny hametra-panontaniana izy ireo hoe mbola hanohy izany ve, kanefa sady miahiahy ihany koa izy ireo sao tsy hahomby amin'izany. |
23 | Faced with a rough path ahead, does the person who wavers and has second thoughts stand any chance against the person who plunges forth without any hesitation? | Ireo olona izay misalasala loatra mieritreritra ny lalana hodiaviny izay mbola lava sy mazana dia somary manam-bitana kokoa amin'ny fanatanterahana izany noho ireo olona izay tsy mihambahamba fa tonga dia mitsoraka avy hatrany. |
24 | You can tell if a person has this kind of determination just by looking at them. | Tonga dia hainao avy hatrany hoe manana izany fahavononana izany ny olona raha vao jerenao fotsiny. |
25 | The ones who say “I want to become XYZ, but I'm not sure how I should proceed”, aren't cut out for it either. | Ireo izay milaza hoe “Te hanao XYZ aho, nefa tsy haiko tsara ny lalana tokony izorako ahatongavako amin'izany”, dia tsy hahatratra izany tanjony izany mihitsy. |
26 | Successful people in any field have the uncanny ability to look objectively at their own abilities, and in addition to just being able to identify their shortcomings, they are able to survey their field and see with certainty what they need to do. I think we could even call it instinct. | Ireo olona mahomby amin'ny lafiny rehetra dia manana fomba hafa kely handinihany ny fahaiza-manaony manokana, ankoatra izany hain'izy ireo ihany koa ny mamantatra ny antony tsy nampahomby azy ireo teo aloha, dia afaka mamantatra tsara izy ireo hoe inona no tena sehatra mety aminy ary hainy tsy am-pimbahambana ny zavatra tokony hataony. |
27 | You'll have to excuse me, but I find it really sad that the people around this girl haven't been able to make her understand that what is necessary for her is not just genius with the pen, but rather this ability to really observe oneself. | Amiko izany ilay antsoina hoe talenta voajanahary. Miala tsiny aminareo raha hilaza fa hitako hoe tena mampalahelo ahy hoe ireo olona manodidina io zazavavy io izay tsy nahavita ny nampahafantatra azy fa ny tena ilainy dia tsy ny talentany amin'ny fahaizany mandray penina fotsiny fa ilay fahaiza-mandinika ny mombamomba azy . |
28 | (Heh, this will probably seem like a contradiction, but I also think that what makes a great artist is the ability to see the things around him in this objective manner). | (Eny, toa ohatran'ny hoe mifanohitra izany, nefa mieritreritra ihany koa aho fa ny mampalaza ny mpanakanto dia ny fahaizany mandinika ny zava-drehetra manodidina azy nefa tsy arahina fihetseham-po). |
29 | All in all, it's easy to tell her, “You're still young and there are plenty of possibilities ahead. | Rehefa fintinina izany rehetra izany, dia tsotra dia tsotra ny miteny aminy hoe, “Mbola tanora ianao ary mbola ho maro ireo zava-tsoa mety hitranga eny amin'ny lalanao. |
30 | Do your best!” | Asehoy izay tsara indrindra vitanao!” |
31 | However, if I were her homeroom teacher, I'd recommend that she get a salaried “office lady” position. | Na koa raha hoe izaho no mpampianany, dia namporisika azy aho hikarama hanao “mpiasa birao”. |
32 | Perhaps this is real kindness. | Mety hoe izany no tena fanehoana hatsaram-panahy. |
33 | If they were the “real deal”, they'd go down that path regardless of what anyone says. | Nefa raha toa ka “tena manan-danja be” amin'izy ireo izany, dia mety nanaraka ny lalany ihany izy ireo ary tsy hiraharaha izay tenenin'ny olona . |
34 | For students that just don't have that spark, I consider it a teacher's responsibility to help them look reality in the eye, instead of encouraging a bet on slender chances. | Fa ho an'ireo mpianatra tsy manana izany pitik'afo izany hitsilo azy, dia mihevitra aho hoe andraikitry ny mpampianatra ny mampiseho azy ireo ny zava-misy fa tsy hanosika azy ireo amin'ny fanaovana fanamby nefa efa fantatra dieny mialoha fa tsy hahomby izany na kely fotsiny aza. |
35 | (Addendum) | (Fanampiny) |
36 | I'm very happy to receive so much feedback on this provocative post. | Faly aho naharay fitanan-tsoratra maromaro avy amin'ny mpamaky tato anatin'ity lahatsoratra fanakianana ity. |
37 | Thank you. | Misaotra betsaka. |
38 | I've read all of the comments and Tweets. | Voavakiko avokoa ireo fitanan-tsoratra rehetra sy Tweets. |
39 | There were more sympathetic voices than I expected, but essentially, people were divided in two parties. | Maro ireo olona no nilaza am-pahatsorana ny heviny ary betsaka noho ny nantenaiko izany fa ny tena zava-dehibe indrindra tao dia nizara ho ekipa roa izy ireo. |
40 | I think it shows what a difficult issue this is, and how it's not possible for someone to unilaterally come up with the right answer. | Tsapako hoe hita mazava tsara fa somary sarotsarotra ny vahaolana amin'izy io, ary sarotra ho an'ny tsirairay avy ny mahita ny valin-teny tena marina sady iraisan'ny be sy ny maro. |
41 | Some people quoted musicians and conductors, and I can sympathize that these are competitive and unforgiving fields as well. | Ny sasany amin'ireo nanome ny heviny tao dia mpanakanto sy mpamily fiara, ary tsapako anefa fa sehatra ahitana fifaninanana ary tsy anehoana famindra-po ireo sehatra ireo. |
42 | Because I wrote in a way that upset people who are already on this road, there were some emotional comments. | Satria nanoratra zavatra mety nanohina olona aho indrindra fa ireo izay efa nizotra tamin'izay lalana izay, nisy hevitra nahitana fihetsem-po maromaro tao. |
43 | To stay true to yourself and your dream is a road filled with distractions from naysayers and temptations to take the easy way out. | Somary sarotsarotra ny lalanao rehefa te hanaja ny tenanao sy ny nofinofinao ianao, satria ireo mpanenjika anao dia tsy maintsy hamporisika anao hitady ny lalana akaiky indrindra ahatongavana amin'izany ary fialam-bolin'izy ireo ny hampiditra fakam-panahy anao tsy hahatanteraka izany. |
44 | There's simply no time to be livid at the lack of understanding from your friends and family, let alone becoming unsettled because of a random, unfeeling blog post! | Tsy misy fotoana natokana hanerena ny namana sy ny fianakavianao hahafantatra tsara ny fanirianao sy ny zavatra rehetra tsapanao, aleo miezaka ny mandeha irery hatrany na ohatra aza ka tsy hitanao intsony izay lalana aleha satria efa nivenjivenjy teny foana! |
45 | Remember, everyone is going through life with uncertainties. | Tsarovy tsara, samy mizotra amin'ny lalana ny tsirairay miaraka amin'ny ahiahy. |
46 | Also, any discussion about how “regular” jobs are also difficult is so obvious that I won't respond to it here. | Ankoatra izay, misy adihevitra maro miompana amin'ny hoe : sarotra dia sarotra ny mitady asa “toy ny mahazatra”. Mazava ho azy fa tsy ho valiako eto izany. |
47 | Of course it is. | Fa sarotra mihitsy izany. |
48 | Whether or not to say things like this to a person face to face is a difficult issue, and it's a bit cowardly of me to start on this after writing this post but personally, I would place some distance with people who state their dreams like this. | Na manahirana aza ny miady hevitra amin'ny hoe: mora na sarotra ny milaza zavatra toy izany amin'ny olona iray tsy ankanafin-tarehy, ary somary fanehoana fihetsika tsy am-pitandremana avy aty amiko raha hanomboka hiresaka izany aho taorian'ny nanoratako io lahatsoratra io nefa amiko manokana, tsy hifandray akaiky amin'ireny olona izay manambara ny nofiny toy izany aho. |
49 | There are some things you can say because it's anonymous and online, and people who criticize that I am denying the existence of the dreamer should think again. | Misy zavatra sasany afaka lazainao rehefa any amin'ny aterineto ary rehefa tsy an-kitonona anarana, ary tokony hieritreritra tsara ihany ireo olona izay manakiana ahy sy milaza hoe tsy manaiky ny fisian'ireo olona manana nofy aho. |
50 | This is a suggestion on how I would advise someone to give up on their dream. | Soso-kevitra ity amin'ny fomba filazana ny olona amin'ny tsy fanatanterahana ny nofiny. |
51 | An ordinary but appropriate opinion is to have the person follow their dream and see for themselves, if the dreamer is someone who has that kind of time. | Ny fomba fanehoana ny hevitra tsotra sy mety indrindra dia ny fanekena ny olona hanatanteraka hatrany ny nofiny ary izy ireo ihany no mahita ny vokatr'izany, raha toa moa ka olona manam-potoana amin'izany ilay mpanonofy. |
52 | A wake up call to reality, if you will. | Feo fanairana amin'ny zava-misy raha toa ka izay no tinareo. |
53 | The rest is up to them, whether to continue or to quit. | Anjarany ny ambiny na hanohy ny dia izy na hijanona. |
54 | Remember, it's your life! | Aza adino fa fiainanao io! |