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1 | This Chinese Singer Dared to Publicly Propose to Her Boyfriend | Sahy Nangata-bady Ampahibemaso Ny Olon-tiany Ity Vehivavy Sinoa Mpihira Ity |
2 | Screen capture from YouTube. | Saripika nalaina tao amin'ny YouTube. |
3 | Chinese female singer, Zhang Liangying proposed marriage to his boyfriend during her concert on July 4. | Nangataka hivady tamin'ny olon-tiany ilay vehivavy Sinoa mpihira Zhang Liangying nandritra ny fiakarany an-tsehatra ny 4 Jolay. |
4 | | Tratran'ny tsy nampoizina ny vohikala Sinoa rehefa nangata-bady ampahibemaso ny olon-tiany Feng Ke, Talen'orinasa mpampialavoly iray, ilay mpihira Zhang Liangying, 30 taona, nandritra ny seho an-tsehatra tany Changsha ny 4 Jolay. |
5 | It is still uncommon for women in China to take the initiative in relationships. | Mbola tsy mahazatra an'ireo vehivavy any Shina ny manao ny dingana voalohany anatin'ny fiarahan'olon-droa. |
6 | Men are usually the first to ask women out, and they are the first to propose. | Ny lehilahy matetika no mangataka ny vehivavy hiaraka aminy, ary izy ihany koa no voalohany mangataka ny hivady. |
7 | And it isn't usual for women to openly talk about being thirty and single. | Ary tsy vaovao ny mahita ireo vehivavy miresaka malalaka momba ny fahatratrarany ny faha-telopolo taonany ka mbola mahatokatena azy. |
8 | When women are unmarried and in their 30s, they can derogatorily be called “left-over women” or shengnü in Chinese. | Rehefa tsy manambady ireo vehivavy anatin'ny faha-30 taonany, dia azo antsoina amin'ny fomba manaratsy hoe “vehivavy sisan'olona” na shengnü amin'ny teny Sinoa. |
9 | But gender roles aren't as fixed as the used to be in China. | Saingy tsy voafaritra araka izay hita hatramin'izay ireo anjara asan'ny lahy sy ny vavy any Shina. |
10 | And Zhang's very public proposal, where she mentions her age, shows this transformation. | Ary mampiseho izany fiovàna izany ny fangatahana ampahibemaso nataon'i Zhang, izay hanononany ny taonany. |
11 | With tears in her eyes, she said emotionally at the end of the concert: | Miaraka amin'ny ranomaso mameno ny masony, nilaza izao tamim-pihetseham-po izy tamin'ny faran'ilay seho an-tsehatra: |
12 | I want to say, between the last years 18-30 of my life, I hadn't been waiting, because someone has always been there for me. | Te-hiteny aho fa teo anelanelan'ireo taona faran'ny 18-30 tanatin'ny androm-piainako, tsy niandry aho, satria nisy olona foana teo ho ahy. |
13 | […] I am 30 now, today I am in Changsha again. | […] 30 taona aho izao, eto Changsha indray aho ankehitriny. |
14 | I want to do something I wanted to do when I was 20. I have considered throughout, I don't want to be single. | Te-hanao izay zavatra tiako natao tamin'izaho 20 aho. Nandinika lalina aho, ary tsy te-ho tokatena. |
15 | In the past 10 years, you fans have accompanied me, and this person has accompanied me. | Tanatin'ireo 10 taona lasa, nanaraka ahy teny ianareo mpankafy, ary nanaraka ahy ihany koa io olona io. |
16 | I have made up my mind, if you want to marry me now, just come to the stage. | Tapaka ny hevitro, raha te-haka vady ahy ianao izao, miakara fotsiny eto amin'ny sehatra. |
17 | Her boyfriend then joined her on stage and gave her a tight hug and a long kiss. | Nanatona azy teny amin'ny sehatra ny olon-tiany avy eo ka namihina mafy azy ary nanoroka azy nandritra ny fotoana maharitra. |
18 | Zhang's fans bursted into cheers. | Nitosaka ny tehatehak'ireo mpankafy an'i Zhang. |
19 | Afterwards, many people debated whether it is acceptable for women to take initiative in relationships. | Avy eo, maro ireo olona niady hevitra mikasika ny fanekena na tsia ny fanaovan'ny vehivavy ny dingana voalohany anatin'ny fiarahan'olon-droa. |
20 | In the opinion page of a government party affiliated newspaper The Beijing News, an article by Hou Hongbin posed a question to critics who accused Zhang of taking advantage and putting her wealthy boyfriend on the spot. | Tanatin'ny pejy fanehoan-kevitry ny gazety iray mifandray amin'ny antoko politikan'ny governemanta,The Beijing News, mametram-panontaniana an'ireo tsikera miampanga an'i Zhang ho manararaotra sy mampisehoseho ny olon-tiany mpanarivo ny lahatsoratra nosoratan'i Hou Hongbin. |
21 | The article “Are women proposing marriage really taking advantage of men?“ supported Zhang's move: | Nanohana ny fihetsik'i Zhang ilay lahatsoratra “Tena manararaotra ireo lehilahy tokoa ve ireo vehivavy mangataka fanambadiana?“: |
22 | I know that some famous affection experts have been claiming - [in relationship with men] women should not take initiative, otherwise women will become worthless, and doomed to be abandoned by men. | Fantatro fa nilaza ireo manam-pahaizana sasany malaza amin'ny resa-pitiavana fa - [anatinà fiarahana amin'ny lehilahy] tsy tokony ny vehivavy no hanao ny dingana voalohany, raha tsy izany dia ho tsy misy vidiny izy ireo, ary voahozona hilaozan'ireo lehilahy. |
23 | The same logic applies to the saying that compared with men, women should not be richer, have higher education degrees, or be smarter. | Mitovy amin'ny filazana ihany koa io fandehan-javatra io fa, raha oharina amin'ny lehilahy, tsy tokony hanan-karena kokoa ny vehivavy, na manana marim-pahaizana avo kokoa, na mahay kokoa. |
24 | Women should pretend to be lesser than men, otherwise men would have pressure, feel low self-worth and hate women. | Tokony hody hambany noho ny lehilahy ny vehivavy, raha tsy izany dia hahatsapa tsindry izy ireo, hahatsiaro ho ambany lanja ka hankahala ireo vehivavy. |
25 | … Initially, I thought Zhang Liangying's act may have embarrassed herself. | … Tamin'ny voalohany, nihevitra aho fa mety nahamenatra ny tenany ny fihetsik'i Zhang Liangying. |
26 | But now, it makes her shine. | Saingy ankehitriny, mampamirapiratra azy izany. |
27 | Women struggled for many years and finally become goddesses [stars]. | Niady efa aman-taonany maro ireo vehivavy ary tamin'ny farany dia lasa andriamanitra vavy [kintana]. |
28 | Don't these women just want to have the life that they have been pursuing? | Tsy te-hanana ny fiainana nindraindrainy hatrizay ve ireo vehivavy ireo? |
29 | Don't they just want to select careers and lifelong companions that can advance and retreat altogether? | Tsy te-hisafidy ireo anton'asa sy namana tsy mahafohy izay hiaraka androso sy hiala sasatra miaraka ve izy ireo? |
30 | Some critics have opposing stance. | Mandray ny toerana mifanohitra amin'izay ireo mpitsikera sasany. |
31 | In this comment on China's Twitter-like Weibo, a concerned user pointed out the risk of women's marriage proposal: | Tanatin'ny tsikerany tao amin'ny Weibo (mitovy amin'ny Twitter any Shina), nanamarika ny risika mety hisy eo amin'ny fangataham-bady ataon'ny vehivavy ny mpampiasa iray izay nanahy: |
32 | In my 13-year life experience, if a man wants to marry you, he must propose marriage to you or talk with you about the wedding day. | Anatin'ny traikefa ananako nandritra ny 13 taona niainako, raha misy lehilahy te-haka vady anao, tsy maintsy mandroso ny resaka aminao izy na miresaka aminao momba ny andron'ny fanambadiana. |
33 | It is totally unnecessary for a woman to clearly indicate or hint to a man. My female friends, who had forced their boyfriends into marriage, resulted in either splitting-up or success, but this woman [who had succeed in proposing marriage] has low rank in the family. | Tsy ilaina mihitsy ny vehivavy mampiseho mazava na manome sopapa ilay lehilahy. Ireo vehivavy namako, izay nanery ny olon-tiany haka vady azy, dia niafara tamin'ny fisarahana na nahomby, saingy ity vehivavy [izay nahomby tamin'ny fangatahany vady] ity dia latsa-danja ao anatin'ny fianakaviana. |
34 | Young girls, please pay attention to my words. | Ry zatovovavy, mba diniho ny teniko. |
35 | Some may succeed in proposing marriage, but few do. | Mety hisy ireo sasantsasany hahomby amin'ny fangataham-bady, saingy vitsy izany. |
36 | In the 1960s, the proof of men's readiness to get married was to prepare for the “three indispensable things” or sandajian (三大件) - a watch, a bicycle and a radio. | Tanatin'ireo taona 1960, ny porofon'ny fahavononan'ny lehilahy hanambady dia ny fikarakarany ireto “zavatra fototra telo ilaina” ireto na ny sandajian (三大件) - famantaranora, bisikileta ary onjam-peo. |
37 | As China's economy has been speeding up in recent decades, now, sandajian has become a house, a car and bulk of money. | Koa satria nihazakazaka ny fitomboan'ny toekaren'i Shina tanatin'ireo folo taona faramparany, ankehitriny, lasa trano, fiarakodia, ary antontam-bola goavana ny sandajian. |
38 | “No house, no marriage” has become the cardinal advice for Chinese men. | Ny “Tsy misy trano, tsy misy fanambadiana” no lasa hafatry ny cardinaly ho an'ireo lehilahy Sinoa. |
39 | According to a survey published by a China's dating website in 2014, about 71. | Araka ny fanisàna navoakanà vohikala iray fitadiavana olon-tiana ao Shina tamin'ny 2014, manodidina ny 71. |
40 | 8% of women thought they are worthy of being married to men who have houses. | 8% ireo vehivavy no nihevitra fa mendrika ny hivady amin'ny lehilahy manana trano izy ireo. |
41 | But the high price of real estate is plaguing most single men in China. | Saingy mampihoroho ny ankamaroan'ireo lehilahy tokatena any Shina ny haavon'ny vidin'ny trano. |
42 | For many Chinese men without love nests, a dating relationship is unlikely to lead to marriage. | Ho an'ireo lehilahy Sinoa maro tsy manana trano hitoeran'ny fitiavana, toa tsy inoana ny hizoran'ny fiarahana hankany amin'ny fanambadiana. |
43 | Given these circumstances, this article encourages women to be more courageous in proposing marriage: | Noho ireo trangan-zavatra ireo, mampahery ireo vehivavy ho sahisahy kokoa ity lahatsoratra ity manoloana ny fangataham-panambadiana: |
44 | Actually, the reason - men do not want to talk about marriage with women - is not because they oppose marriage, but they are worried whether they have the wealth to give women happiness. | Ny tena marina, ny antony - tsy itiavan'ireo lehilahy miresaka momba ny fanambadiana amin'ny vehivavy - dia tsy sanatria manohitra ny fanambadiana izy ireo, fa kosa manahy ny tsy hanana harena hahafahana mampiadana ireo vehivavy. |
45 | At this point, women should actively “propose marriage.” | Raha izany fandehany izany, tokony havitrika “hangata-bady” ireo vehivavy. |
46 | By poking a hole in a paper window, women give men confidence [they need to pursue] marriage. | Amin'ny alàlan'ny fandavahana ny varavarankely vita avy amin'ny taratasy, manome toky ireo lehilahy ny vehivavy fa mila [mizotra amin'ny] fanambadiana izy ireo. |